Sometimes pulling back feels like self-protection. You’re tired of being the one who reaches out. Tired of wondering if your spouse will meet you halfway. So you think, I’ll wait and see if they notice. But your spouse may not see the hurt behind your silence. They may only feel the distance. And suddenly, two people who both want to feel loved are waiting on opposite sides of the same room. Instead of silently testing, try naming what’s underneath it: “I miss feeling close to you.” Vulnerability can feel risky. But it gives your spouse a chance to understand what silence never could. 💛 Comment CONNECT and we’ll send you the full FamilyLife Today conversation. #familylifetoday #marriagegoals