“Perhaps our fellow felt looking after us was an extension of his duties as an oncologist, or maybe the line was becoming blurred for him, too.” Molly Saint-James’s husband’s oncologist was kind and available — including in the months after her husband's death. For #BoundariesWeek, Saint-James writes about the events that led her to wish they had never gotten so close. “The fallout was swift and painful. I was devastated at the loss of another primary relationship, especially one all tangled up with Ian.” Read on at the link in bio. Photo-Illustration: The Cut; Photos: Getty