Most relationships fail because of this: In tension, we focus on a resolution instead of “reconciliation.” Ending the argument or disagreement ——> that’s a resolution. Restoring the relationship to where it was before the argument ever occurred ——> that’s reconciliation. Here’s the problem: when we simply focus on a resolution instead of reconciliation, sure the problem may have been resolved. But the person’s heart is not healed. When you only focus on a resolution, the argument may have end, but the relationship will too. #relationshiptips #conflictresolution