People know the difference between right and wrong.
The problem is, some people simply don't care.
You can be nice to them.
You can ask them.
You can explain yourself.
You can beg them.
You can plead with them.
You can tell them, calmly and respectfully, exactly how their behavior is hurting you.
And they’ll ignore you.
Not because they don’t understand.
Because there’s no consequence for ignoring you.
Some people don't respond to kindness because they interpret kindness as weakness. They don't respond to boundaries because they've learned you won't enforce them. And they don't change because their behavior continues to benefit them.
That's why sometimes the only thing that gets through to a person is pain.
Not cruelty for the sake of cruelty.
Consequences.
The loss of access.
The loss of trust.
The loss of the relationship.
The loss of money, status, opportunity, or whatever they took for granted.
Sometimes people don't learn because you explained the lesson badly.
They do...
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