Where are you over-functioning? 🪞 I want you to be honest here. Don't minimize it. Don't write it off as "it's nothing." Reflect on your current or most recent relationship — emotionally, practically, financially, sexually, communicatively, relationally. Where? How? Emotionally — solving everyone's problems. Practically — always making sure the environment is right, neat, clean for someone else. Financially — overspending, over-giving financially to make things "work." Sexually — always saying yes, never saying no. Doing what your partner wants even when you're tired, uncomfortable, or insecure. Communicatively — going silent because they don't like hearing you, or over-explaining because you feel like you have to. Relationally — always being present. Never taking time for yourself. Never being gone long enough to be missed. Here's the ultimate question: what would happen if you stopped doing your part AND theirs? Because over-functioning is exactly that — carrying both roles in...