I wish every couple knew these things from the beginning. I’ve spent more than 30 years sitting with couples in every stage of love. Newly in love, disconnected, furious with each other, trying to find their way back, and still deeply in love after decades together. After all those years, there are certain things I find myself saying again and again. Some are surprisingly simple. Some are much harder to actually do. And a few took me years, and my own marriage, to fully understand. I shared some of my biggest lessons about what actually helps love last in this week’s Substack. I gave you a few here, but there’s a lot more in the full piece... including why being right can sometimes cost us connection, why desire needs attention over the years, and what it really means to build a relationship between two whole people ♥️ Read the full post on my Substack through the link in my bio 🔗 #relationships #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationships #marriageadvice #drlauraberman