Because they live in denial, they will do anything to avoid being held accountable for their behavior. To them, admitting a flaw triggers deep subconscious shame—a reminder of childhood wounds that make them feel unworthy of love. So when you ask for basic accountability, they run. They twist the narrative, gaslight you, or accuse you of doing what they actually did. When you need answers, they give you the silent treatment or ghost you—blaming you for the very issues they caused just to preserve their own delusion. It was never about you. It’s their inability to build an inner foundation without constant outside validation. Have you ever experienced this shift during the silent treatment? Let’s talk in the comments. 👇 #narcissist #silenceisatactic #gaslightingsigns #toxicrelationship #traumabond