You can love someone deeply and still decide they no longer get unlimited access to you. ❤️🩹
That was one of the hardest lessons I had to learn.
For years, I thought love meant understanding. Forgiving. Giving another chance. And then another.
But forgiveness doesn’t require reconnection.
You can forgive someone and still protect your peace.
You can understand why someone hurt you and still decide their behavior is no longer welcome in your life.
You can love someone and still choose yourself.
Setting a boundary doesn’t erase the love you had for someone. Sometimes it simply means you’ve finally learned to include yourself in that love too.
If you’re learning how to stop abandoning yourself just to keep other people comfortable, this is the work I talk about in my 1:1 coaching and motivational speaking.
🎥 Full video at the link in my bio.
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