Five weeks after he moved to New York, Patrick Clancy says he honored his son Callan's first birthday by lighting a candle at St. Patrick's Cathedral. “I say, ‘I love you, buddy.’ And I walk out on Fifth Avenue, and I start crying my eyes out. And nobody cared,” he recalls. “I thought, ‘This is where I need to be. I can grieve.’” #patrickclancy #clancy #grief