He cleaned without me. 😡😨🥰 I was literally enjoying my back patio, sitting by the pool waiting for my husband agentmattpaul to get home from the gym so we could clean out the shed TOGETHER. (Note: As we had previously agreed upon.) About 2 hours passed and nothing. So I go to find him. Honey, he announces that he’d taken two whole loads of stuff to the dumpster without me around to signify and my heart went into a panic. Why are we like thissss?! Comment & share with your friends who can relate for part 2! #over40women #perimenopausesupport #blackmomsbelike #menopausal #cognitivedissonance