My work focuses mostly on what we can do as allies. But I was happy to accept this invitation from the nytimes to focus on the other perspective. In this piece, I share evidence-based strategies from social scientists about how to use your status as a strength not stigma.⁠ This was a special section on gender but much of the piece applies intersectionally. ⁠⠀ Illustration by ilyamilstein⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ #ThePersonYouMeanToBe #DearGoodPeople #GoodishIsBetter⁠⠀