I could write an encyclopedia about how my good intentions don't always = positive impact. Research shows us where we are likely to get trapped into dangerous modes and what we can do about it. Writing this part of the book made me wince, as I saw myself in every mode.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ #ThePersonYouMeanToBe #DearGoodPeople #GoodishIsBetter⁠⠀