One of the biggest red flags to look out for when choosing a partner is an unhealthy obsession with someone famous, a celebrity, an artist, or anyone who doesn't actually know them in real life.
Because when someone has built an entire fantasy around another person, you're not competing with a human being.
You're competing with an idealized version of them that exists entirely in their imagination.
And that's a game you're never going to win.
The fantasy will always be more exciting than the reality.
They can project whatever qualities they want onto that person. They don't have to deal with their flaws, their bad habits, their moods, their disagreements, or the realities of an actual relationship.
And if they ever get the opportunity to live out that fantasy, don't be surprised if everything you've done for them suddenly becomes irrelevant.
The time you've invested.
The sacrifices you've made.
The experiences you've shared.
The love you've given.
None of it necessarily matt...
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