If you're a man or a woman who's dating, practicing casual sex, and you have a highly contagious STD, maybe your focus shouldn't be on dating, relationships, and getting back in the game. Maybe your focus should be on self-inquiry, healing, and figuring out what the fuck is going on. Because something like that is serious. Maybe life is giving you a wake-up call. Maybe it's time to look at your mindsets, your beliefs, your attitudes, and the decisions that got you there in the first place. And if you try to jump right back into the dating and relationship game with something that contagious that you're not properly managing, while still planning to do the same things and think the same way... You're not getting the point. Sometimes the lesson isn't about getting back out there. Sometimes the lesson is about stopping, looking in the mirror, and changing. #SelfInquiry #Healing #Dating #Relationships #PersonalGrowth