Have you ever changed the job, the relationship, the city, the circumstances… only to somehow end up recreating the same life? There’s a reason for that. We all have internal “set points” for what feels safe, normal and deserved. And when your life expands faster than your identity does, you may unconsciously find ways to return to what feels familiar. That’s why getting the thing you want isn’t always the hardest part. Sometimes, the harder part is becoming the person who can actually hold it. I write about this in my newest book, Gilt Free because breaking out of your gilded cage isn’t just about changing your circumstances. It’s about expanding what you believe you’re allowed to have, feel and become. Gilt Free is available now on Amazon, and I’m taking these conversations off the page and into real life. Come join me on the Gilt Free Book Tour in: MIAMI • October 8 LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS • October 20 NEW YORK CITY • October 22 BOZEMAN • September 30 Fireside chats. ...