The most common ick among women right now is an aesthetic man. You know the one. He curates carousels. He takes an artsy overhead shot of his coffee, then a mirror selfie at the gym, posted with a Drake or Kanye track underneath. On paper, this is an unreasonable thing to be icked by. Men are allowed to care about vanity too. But there’s something specific about a man spending hours curating a grid that lands wrong. Men used to go to war; now the battle is a nine-slide layout and the right filter. To find out whether this was just personal bias or a genuine cultural verdict, Arshita Suri (arshitakaursuri) asked three women what “too online” actually looks like when you’re dating someone. Share your thoughts in the comments below. #EsquireIndia #Dating #Ick