Love yourself.❤️ When I was 19 I "kissed dating goodbye". I had dealt with 2 previous toxic relationships and i had enough. I told myself I wasn't going to get into another relationship until I learned to truly love myself. Love my “flaws", quirky habits, and everything else that made me...me. So I didn't date anybody for 3 years (also sexually abstinent). This changed my life. I took that time getting to know myself and loving myself. No more falling for other guys.. I fell for myself. I stopped trying to impress other people and started impressing myself. Because of this I started seeing my worth and what I deserved. What every female deserves. I also didn't want to waste my time dating guy after guy. Time is valuable and I wanted to use it wisely. So instead of focusing on dating I focused on myself. I traveled the world, volunteered, made spontaneous decisions, found new hobbies, adopted a puppy, joined a science club, bought myself flowers, found my love for fitness, and so much m...