There’s no shortage of less-than-flattering representations of age-gap relationships. But what’s often overlooked—or at least, not given as much attention—are the partnerships that thrive and defy those one-dimensional narratives. In reality, “age-gap relationships can work,” Mindy DeSeta, PhD, LMHC, a Miami-based sex therapist whose husband is 18 years older, tells SELF. Just look at movies like "Babygirl" or even the latest episode of "The White Lotus." Tap the link in bio for five key factors that help these relationships succeed—plus, mistakes that give them a bad rap. #whitelotus #babygirl #ideaofyou #bridgetjones #afamilyaffair #agegap #relationship