Friday- one of my fav F words… one of the other favs?- FORGIVENESS. Let’s talk about it 🫠 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Going through life can get so messy and it’s impossible to get through it without either offending someone or getting offended. The point is- SOMEONE’S GETTING HURT 🥹 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As I was reflecting this morning I was thinking about how forgiveness can be seen as a destination, when in reality it’s a journey with no end. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Like the trauma itself, forgiving can be extremely complex, a lot to process, and can come in layers. But what we tend to think (and I used to 😓) is equate forgiving as forgetting. Because we’re literally always told to ‘forgive and forget’.. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I’ve found that forcing myself to ‘forget’ can make me sorta bitter. And y’all, this is me being raw. Bitterness is not a fun place to be at.🙃 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But me being the introspective person that I am, decide to not only remember these things, people, past situations.. but also thank them for reminding me why...