“That’s cool you lift. But do you have a feminine side?” Answer: Not for you I don’t. “You’re not going to become bulky, are you?” Answer: I’ll become whatever the f*ck I want. “Huh. You can lift decent weight, but you should try ...” Answer: 🙄😵🥊 Conversations in dating. The intimidated need not apply, I’m not interested. 😏💪🏻⛓ . Because the thing is, I spent most of my life taking on different shades like a chameleon, and bending, molding and shaping myself, thinking it would make me more lovable and worthy. And yet - I still wasn’t enough (in others’ eyes). Now, I’m in the best shape of my life, and others STILL find fault with who I am. But guess what, I don’t have to listen to them. I don’t have to believe their point of view. Their opinion, is none of my business. Nor do I want it to be. So ... if you need me, I’ll just be over here being who I want to be. And not who anyone else thinks I should be. 👊🏻 . #gracefulwarrior #girlswholift #singlegirlswholift #singlelife #dumbth...