And it's no reflection on you or your worth. Remember that. The pain they're causing you is rooted deep down in the cracks of their own hearts. In the dark places where their pain can't find the light. It comes from their earliest heart break, trauma, fear, insecurity ... and so much more. Their hurt isn't yours to own or to carry. It never was. So set it down and face your own pain. Trudge through the hardship of it. Because there are no short cuts to the light. Only hard work requiring courage, vulnerability and fear. Own your own pain, beauties. And we will light up the world with our light. . . #pain #hardship #hurt #fear #courage #vulnerability #dothework #brokenhearts #healinghearts #secondchances #grace #setitdown #ownyourshit