When you can’t count on yourself, you are at the mercy of other people and institutions. Of course they sometimes support you. Occasionally they may even save you. But it’s not the position you want to be in and never something you can rely on for too long.
Make it your mission in 2021 to become self-reliant. Build your own security. Create your own stability. Learn how to generate your own value, solve your own problems, and take care of your own needs.
Always appreciate the contributions and support you receive from family, friends, strangers, and teams AND never stray far from your own self-reliance.